Post # 1
Hi all, this is my first post and I am hoping that you ladies will be able to help me with my hair. I have been growing it out (and getting regular trims to keep it healthy as possible) in anticipation for my wedding 3.9.13. I have no idea what to do with my hair. I did not want to do an updo but I did a trial with a half up half down and while it looked pretty when I left the salon, the curls that were left out fell quickly and i was left with what you see in the photo below.
Now I am thinking about doing an updo (nothing to the side) so that I can have some control and the comfort of knowing my hair will look the same the moment i walk down the aisle to the end of the reception.
Do you have any recommendations? I’d like to hear what other lond haired ladies are planning to do with their hair 🙂
For reference, I have a mantilla style veil and a big Maria Elena crystal hair comb to work with.
Post # 3
I think you have beautiful hair. I am also letting my hair grow out and I do not care for updo’s since I never really put my hair up. I can see you with a nice style such as pinning it to the side here are some ideas.I was also going to ask did she set you in hot rollers?? did you wash your hair that day?? well hope these pictures help
Post # 4
You have gorgeous hair. I think you should show off its length if you want to.
Post # 5
I didn’t want to do an updo cause I wanted to show off my flowing long hair(esp since it was a beach wedding). But with the wind factor on the beach I knew it had to have some control or it would be blowing in my face. This is what I went with (curls pinned to the side into a side pony) and I sprayed the curls pretty heavily with hairspray and they held the entire night.
Post # 6
My hair is as long as yours, and while I would have loved to show off the length, I had to be realistic. Realistic meaning accepting that my hair doesn’t hold curls and generally looks like crap if left loose after being heat styled and treated with hair spray. We were also having an outdoor ceremony and I knew if there was even the slightest breeze, it would ruin my hair if left loose. I opted for a full updo that was entirely made of braids instead of curls. It ended up being very elegant and unique and only took 40 minutes to do. So you might want to talk to the person who will be doing your hair and discuss with them your hair type and what will work best for you.
Post # 7
I had the same issue, I have long hair and my first hair trial I wanted my hair down with vintage style curls, they fell out before the shoot started!!! I was not happy so I discussed it with my vendor and she told me she will do my hair differently on the day of my wedding have the curls set for longer. She explained curls hold best when they go from hOt to cold or wet to dry so for those of us with difficulty holding any curl the best bet is to do Both at a salon setting the curls wet to dry and hot to cold, pinning them for a long period of time so I went back for a second trial yet decided the same as you that an updo would hold all day and I would look like I had my hair done all day. ask for another hair trial if you really don’t want to change the style.
Post # 10
I have long thick hair and I had also considered an updo. However an hour or so after my trial I had the worst headache. I simply had too much hair to maintain that style all night. In the end I chose a half up and half down style and I am glad I did. I really got to showcase my hair and it stayed in all night without an issue. The key is how the curls are done. For me curls using hot rollers and then defined with a curling iron last for eight hours plus with hair spray.
here is early on and a later photo for comparison
Post # 11
For me an up do or wearing the hair let down depends on the style of the dress.
If you are going sleeveless then its nice to have your hair let down or in a half up do or something to that effect.
if your dress will have a jacket or sleeves then its best to do a full updo so as not to hide the style of your dress and then your could wear a ballerina bun or have some curls put in and secured with pins
Post # 12
I have long hair and I’m not doing an updo. I want long flowy curls. My hair is wavy so I will be doing some test runs to make sure it holds up in the Florida air.
Post # 13
Is there anything you can do to make your hair hold a curl? My hair generally doesn’t hold a curl, but when I got a half up style at my hair trial, it actually held pretty well. I hoped to wear it that way, but it was a game day decision. It ended up being 90 and humid, so I have to have it up both to make sure it retained it’s style, and didn’t get sweat glued to my neck/back.
Also, does your hair hold different types of curl better? For example, my hair holds a curl from foam rollers I sleep in SOOO much better than from a curling iron/hot roller. It might be scary to consider doing your own hair, but you have a whole bunch of time to play around with what works and try different things before then.
Post # 14
- Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort
I would definitely suggerst an updo. With that much hair, down may be very cumbersome and your hairstyle will likely fall limp over the course of the day.
Post # 15
I have hair that’s maybe an inch longer than yours, and I love keeping it down… but every time I style it, the curls fall out almost immediately. That said, I recently did my hair up for an event and it looked great the entire time. Try bringing your accessories to your hairdresser and asking what the best fit is, in her opinion. Then try an updo that leaves your hair still visible (so not like a tight bun or something).
Post # 16
I vote for super-glam/retro side pinned curly hair.
we really would need to see your dress neckline to make the best reccomendation however 🙂