- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
I’m not doing a bouquet toss or garter due to the lack of single women/men that will be attending the wedding and I’d prefer not to call them out like that, one girl is completely ok with it, but a few others are just really shy and don’t like things like that.
I wanted to do SOMETHING so I saw the dance where all couples are on the dance floor dancing and as the years increase, the couples leave the dance for pending on their years of marriage.
I have a couple attendees (3 older women, 1 old man) who recently (two within the last year) lost their spouse. I’m worried that doing this dance would upset them. Not in the sense that they’d get mad but just bring back memories of their loved one and make them sad. That’s not what I want. I know two of these women were very very close to their spouse and it crushed them when their husbands passed away. I’m just unsure of how to deal with it. Should I just not do it at all?