(Closed) longing for help and advice…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
158 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@JustFabulous:  Hang in there! I know how it feels to have those little disappointments (SO and I were headed to a fancy steak house, he told me I should dress up, and I find that we are meeting friends there… fun, but not exactly what I had in mind…Have also had plenty of vacations that would have been prime proposal opportunities for him…). I have also accepted the fact that my ring is not 100% a surprise, but oh well. The big picture for me is that I want to spend my life with him, so these are all just details (yes, they are fun/important/etc. but one must keep the ultimate goal in mind…to find and be with the love of your life ๐Ÿ™‚ ). I would definitely suggest bringing up this important discussion, however. Yes, a surprise is nice, but there are so many guys who either take forever or who cannot take any hints! Why do you think there is a board dedicated to this type of thing? Lol ๐Ÿ˜‰ I would suggest waiting a little bit until the relationship is simply calm and fun and there are no big events or anything happening. Then go on a walk or something and try to bring it up if it feels right for that moment ๐Ÿ™‚ Good luck xx

Post # 4
Member
699 posts
Busy bee

@JustFabulous:  I know excatly how you feel, i usually pushf or change as well with my guy, they don’t catch on very well lol, Evertime i mention taking our relationship to the next level he just says in due time and do0nt push it….I dont think I’m pushing at all. Sometimes the girl has to take the bull by the horns and take that leap

Post # 5
Member
646 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

well, first off – welcome to the hive, neighbor ๐Ÿ˜‰ nice to meet someone from our “part of the world” here ๐Ÿ™‚

back to the topic – i’d suggest focusing more on how happy and easy-going you are as a couple, and on yourself especially. try reading mr. bee’s three step plan, helped me and many others who were in a more less same situation.

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