(Closed) *longish* Sister rant and advice needed plz!

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: invite?
    no, your wedding go with your gut/heart, its your day : (3 votes)
    13 %
    yes, family drama will be stirred if not : (20 votes)
    87 %
    toughie idk : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2952 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 1998

    To be honest I think you need to be the bigger person and invite her. If you don’t invite her it just makes you seem wrong.  I also have family issues and as I’ve gotten older I’ve decided to always be the bigger person. 

    Post # 4
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    4464 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I think you need to just invite her and that’s it. If she chooses to come, you’ll have plenty of other things to focus on that day, and if she chooses not to come, then oh well, you were debating not inviting her anyway. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    973 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I’d say invite her only because I’m not clear how old she is… you’re 20, you are apart by 13 years so she’s either 7 or 33??? But regardless I’d have a friend or three on standby in case she showed her a**… to give her a talking to, and if that didn’t work if 33 show her out or escort her to the nearest responsible adult for looking after if she’s 7.

    Though honestly if she’s 7, it all sounds like par for the course for a lot of kids that age.  If she’s 33… I might reconsider inviting her if it wouldn’t cause you too much headache.

    ETA: sorry, reading your posts again, looks like she’s 33… it really becomes how much headache will this cause you with parents/etc. 

     

    Post # 7
    Member
    629 posts
    Busy bee

    @MrsTangerine:  I would hope 33. I can’t imagine a 7 year old wanting to wear “sexy heels”

    Post # 8
    Member
    2651 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    Invite her? Yes . As a BM?  HELL NO.

    Post # 9
    Hostess
    3000 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Yes, definitely an invite is needed in this case

    Post # 10
    Member
    374 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    @pocketfox:  lmbo at your response

    Post # 11
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    2555 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    definitely invite her. also, she’s your sister.

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