- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
My half sister (who i always thought was my full until i was 13, yay family secrets?) and I are 13 years apart. She’s always been babied AND favored more so then my full sister (11 years older) and I (im 20). She has never learned yet in life that the world doesnt revolve around her.
When i was visiting home knowing i want the wedding party to wear converse she goes “argh, i CANT wear SNEAKERS to a wedding, i need SEXY heels or something nice”. She is always rudely opinionated, mouth works faster than brain. My reply was “Wear what you want, doesnt matter, though it is outside”. I had a feeling from her expressing how she cant wear “sneakers” she figured she was in the wedding party, though i NEVER once asked nor hinted/gave off a feel.
About a month after she texted me “so do i have to wear sneakers in your wedding?” this time i replied “no, only the wedding party, though i do advise against heels seeing as its an outside ceremony”, in which case she begain ripping me a new one telling me how much of a bad sister i was for not having her not only in the wedding, but for not having her as my maid of honour! I tried to get her to relax and told her it isnt personal because my other sister isnt in it either, but she continued her ranting/bashing…..its been about almost two months since and theres been no contact, im wondering if i should even invite her now? I mean this is the girl who skipped out on my high school graduation, so i dont see the big deal if her presenceisnt there for my wedding day.
**NOTE: seriously about the above not playing a pity card or being petty over her being favored….ex: full sister has two kids and lives 8 hours away (for 11 years) my parents have yet to go see where she lives, half sister moved another direction 5 hours away and in the last 2 years they have picked her up and brought her back 5 times, and dropped into see me twice because it was conveinient
Anyway, to invite or not to?