(Closed) Looking back….(vent)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 1
Member
138 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Why the heck did I let the wedding take control over my life this past year? I went through the ultimate hell planning this thing. I am not a natural planner. I stressed like no other. Sunk into a bit of a depression. I became queen bitch.

I worried so much about the details. Looking back, I think about how none of what I worried about mattered in the end. Nobody cared. It turns out, I didn’t care when it came down to it. All anyone, including myself cared about was that our friends and family were together celebrating out marriage.

My husband and I look back on the day with fond memories. It was beautiful. Both the ceremony and the reception. The after party was memorable to say the least (drunkity drunk drunk and it felt so good to let loose afterwards!). However, if we had to do it all over again, we would have had a much more intimate ceremony. A dinner party afterwards with our closest friends and family in place of a reception. 

That is all lol. I had to let it out. Thank you for reading!

Post # 3
Member
471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

In the last few weeks, I keep asking myself why we didn’t have a small intimate wedding as well. 🙂 I think the memories with friends and family will be the ones that stick, and eventually you’ll forget about the pre-wedding stress. At least that’s what I keep telling myself!

Post # 4
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138 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

It all depends on the person, but yes, my dh and I really wish we would’ve gone that route of a small, intimate wedding. We can’t do it over though. It was a beautiful day regardless of how I am feeling now. 

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