(Closed) Looking for advice…anyone in a similar situation???…LONG, SORRY!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1013 posts
Bumble bee

I’m not sure what advice i can give you.  I think you have made the right steps toward your future.  You need to make your own personal timeline and say “i love you and i think we have something special together, but i need to know where this is going.  If you want to make a committment i will be over the moon, but if that is something you cant give me, then unfotunately it looks like our relationship will be reaching its ending point.”. If you reach the timeline and he has not made a decision, you will have to leave and keep your head held high.

If marriage as important to you, as it is to most girls, you will never be happy being stung along by someone who cant pull the trigger.  And you dont deserve that either.

Good luck! 

Post # 5
1013 posts
Bumble bee

@BrandyQ:  HAH i have a January timeline too. Because i asked back in February if he was willing to promise we will get engaged in 2012.  He said yes so if we arent he broke his promise and i’m packing a bag.

I haven’t mentioned it since then, its my own personal timeline and he doesn’t know, but i still will stick to it.

Post # 6
597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@BrandyQ:  Wow, I wish I knew SOMETHING to say to you but I have nothing but moral support in whatever decision you choose.! 

Best of luck! I hope other Bees have some advice for you.

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