(Closed) Looking for faith and hope after heartbreak

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
Member
555 posts
Busy bee

My husband of only 5 months came home one day in January and told me he doesn’t want to be married and never actually wanted to marry me. We were together for 3.5 years. It broke my heart and I moved out days later. Like you, I didn’t see it coming.

 

It’s six months later now, and I haven’t found love again, but I feel much better than I did months ago. I have made amazing new friends, started a new hobby, traveled to a new country and I’m happy with my life for most part. To be honest, I still think if him often and I still miss him, but I guess it will take longer for this to go away.

I feel for you, bee. I know how hard this must be for you. Know that many of us went through this, and in the end everything will be okay. In a couple of years you’ll look back and it will just be a memory, and you’ll be in a much better place. Do what makes you happy now, meet friends and family, do fun stuff, build a life that you can be happy with. I promise that you’ll meet someone again, someone who will be amazing and won’t do what your ex did to you. Hugs!

Post # 3
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6168 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2017

You are not alone. I was deeply in love with an ex, living together, our families were intertwined. I thought everything was great. He started getting distant and I tried harder and harder. I deserved better than that.  Begged him to stay after he told me he didn’t love me. I wish I could have whispered in my ear as I layed on the floor bawling afterwards,  “he is not worth it, your perfect guy is on his way”. At the time I thought/believed that I had no luck in love and no future chance at happiness after our break-up.

2 years later I am engaged to “the one” and we are planning our February 2017 wedding. I have never been happier and he makes me realize how bad my ex was for me. He wasn’t a bad person but didn’t love me the way I deserve.

I really believe that everything happens for a reason. You too deserve better than to be discarded so easily. Chin up. Everything will turn out better than you expected.

Post # 4
Member
315 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

You’re worthy of all of the love and security this man wasn’t capable of giving to you. He’s essentially done you a favor by excusing himself to make way for the guy who is waiting to love you like you deserve. 💕hugs💕

Post # 5
Member
97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2016 - City, State

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elleelle :  bee, you deserve a better man! You worth so much more than to be treated like that. I’ve been there, I know it’s very hard. But I agree with pp, do what makes you happy; go somewhere, make new friends, spend time with your hobbies etc. it takes time, but the best is yet to come! You will thank him later once the right man comes. Don’t lose hope 😊 Hugs! 

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