Post # 1

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Wannabee
Ok ladies of the Wedding Bee I know that my soon to be is on here and I am trying my best to keep it as quiet as possible without her knowing this. So my question to you is I am looking to propose to her in the very near future but because I know she loves this site , I wanted to do it here. She is on the waiting list and believe me I hear it everyday. LOL so if you have any suggestions on how I can do it here on the Wedding Bee so that she can be surprised I would love to hear suggestions. Call me the Blue Hornet lol j/k
Post # 3

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Honey Beekeeper
Do you know her user name? You could send her a PM directing her to look for a post in a certain category ? waiting?
Post # 4

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Bumble bee
@IMNOTTELLING: Baby, is that you? 
Post # 5

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Wannabee
I know her SCName and that sounds like a great idea as well. I was thinking of having the Wedding Bee take her off the list and having her post why she is off and then telling her that there has been a mistake and someone would be calling her to correct it. I would then show up at a time and place make the call and disguise my voice and then have her turn around, I know it sounds corny but that may work I really want to make it very neat for her and I know the Wedding Bee is her fav lol.
Post # 6

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Bumble bee
(I was kidding btw, I know you’re not my SO)
That sounds like a good idea in theory, but unfortunately, I don’t think it will quite fly. First reason, the only way someone gets taken off of the list, is if they are proposed to. So…… yeah. Second, not very many people here on the bee do a lot of calling to one another, unless they already know one another in real life.
Not to be a downer on your ideas, but I just don’t think that specific one will work the way you’d like.
How about sending her a PM to her SN here, with a picture of a/the engagement ring? Or, just start a post, with her name in the title, asking her to marry you?
Post # 7

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Sugar bee
@Wonderwoman217: Oooooh, that’s a good idea! You could also start a faux snarky post like “Miss Caviar is such a…”
and then on the actual post list all these fabulous things WITH a picture of the ring… but then you’d have to wait for her to notice it! Oh wait, you could do it one night when you know she’s actively on WB and wait for it to pop up on the boards!
Post # 8

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Wannabee
I like the ideas just feel like it should be more maybe I just may go traditional route. Get down on one knee as we are in a horse and carriage and tell her she is the world to me and how I cannot be without her and if she would do me the greatest honor of being my wife.
Post # 9

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Sugar bee
what if you posted on here asking her out on a date– tell her all the things you love about her then tell her to get all dolled up and meet you somewhere or be ready at a certain time? then on the date you propose!
Post # 10

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Buzzing bee
The absolute best will be if she responds to this post with an idea, and then you do EXACTLY that. I say post a Poll (kinda like a check yes or no note from back in grade school). i.e. Poll: Will you, futuremrsimnottelling, marry me? Yes or No. And then you can go into more detail about the lovey-dovey stuff in the body of the post. Good luck!
Post # 11

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Sugar bee
You could always include a picture of you on one knee with the ring! That would at least touch on traditional. 🙂 The rest you can do once she’s done OMG-ing.
Post # 12

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Busy bee
I love the poll idea 🙂 So cute! Good luck!
Post # 13

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Bee Keeper
Awww the poll idea is sweet 🙂