(Closed) Looks like divorce is in the cards for me.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

To asnwer your questions, no no and no. It’s only okay if you’re okay with it – which clearly you are not (and I wouldn’t be either!)

Post # 4
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3078 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@justfornow:  It is absolutely NOT ok for a married man to be doing this!

 

It is NOT normal

 

You are NOT crazy.

 

I am so sorry you are dealing with this =(

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

No way its not normal im so sorry your going through this..

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Not okay not normal and you’re not crazy. I would get marriage counseling asap. I’m not pro-divorce though. If I were, I’d leave him asap.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

@justfornow:  It is not ok, he is overstepping the bounds of a married man by even being friends with this woman and you are perfectly sane. For your daughters sake see if he will stop but if not don’t let a man walk all over you. She will see that and think that is how it is supposed to be.

Is he a good father?

Post # 9
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88 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

No you aren’t crazy & NO it’s not alright.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

No, it’s not okay for a married man to do. Particularly a man with a history of cheating.

No, it is not normal.

No, you are not crazy. Though I’m wondering, two years ago when he cheated on you the first time, were you guys already married at the time?

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@justfornow:  The girl he is talking to is his old fling??  Oh my gosh.  I do hope you leave.  This is not okay, especially considering his track record!!!!

Post # 14
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1161 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@justfornow:  I am so sorry you are dealing with this OP. This is not acceptable behavior for a married man. Hugs to you OP.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

@justfornow:  Ok well then counseling should definitely be your first step. There even if you decide he wont change and make it work you can get help on how to transition her to co-parenting through divorce.

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