(Closed) Loser groomsmen and lame bachelor party

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

There is no rule that says the Best Man has to plan the bachelor party. If you think your Fiance wants one, talk to the other guys in the wedding party and suggest that they plan something outside of the bestman and then when everything is planned and set in stone the guys can tell him. Then he can go along with it or dont go at all.

Thats the only plan that I can think about. Have the other men plan something but dont tell the bestman until everything is set in stone. That way they dont have to rely on him to plan or make a decision about it. 🙂 Good luck!!

Post # 4
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2657 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Did you ever ask your Fiance what he really wants?? Just curious. Does he want a huge bachelor party or low key like what the bestman in planning?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

My fiance is going camping for his bachelor party, but his best man isn’t planning it because he just had a baby, lives out of town, and is in the process of relocating for work.  I would speak to the other groomsmen and see what they can do.  I love all of my Fiance groomsmen, but between many of them either being out of town, or flaky, I spoke to the one I knew was the most on top of it to make sure he gets one because I would be so sad if he didn’t have one, so I know how you feel!

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