(Closed) Losing a friend because she is not my bridesmaid. LONG

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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3686 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Honestly, it seems like she did you a favor. You wouldn’t have wanted her at your wedding anyway as it sounds like she wouldn’t have been able to rein in the drama, even for one night. You made the right decision.

Post # 4
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4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

It sounds like you dodged a bullet and also killed two birds with one stone by getting out of having her in your wedding party as well as bringing this crazy ‘friendship’ to an end at the same time! I know it can be painful to have such a long friendship end and the other person not even being willing to discuss it, but I give you credit for refusing to get in some stupid text message battle with her – you offered to talk it out like adults and she shot you down. Which really is probably for the best, because she sounds bathshit crazy, the last thing you need in a friend is someone who is constantly talking crap about your Fiance and his family over stuff that should be ancient history at this point. What a drama queen!

 

Post # 5
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917 posts
Busy bee

It sounds like you’ve done all you can to maintain the friendship and she’s playing the victim and being immature about the whole situation. Like the other PPs have said, it sounds like she’s done you a favour. It astonishes me how often people forget that friendship is a two way street. If you still feel like sending her an invitation then by all means, do so, but I honestly wouldn’t bother. I hope your mother can make your wedding and that it’s a beautiful day you’ll cherish forever. x

Post # 6
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610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Lawd. Good riddance! Stay away from self-centered ppl who only bring you down!

Post # 7
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496 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Sounds like being friends with her is a truckload of self-involved drama all day every day. Good riddance. I would never want someone to be my bridesmaid or at my wedding if she had treated my fiance as badly as this woman has treated yours. It is not his fault his brother is/was abusive.

Post # 9
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1880 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I don’t know why this woman was your friend to start with… she sounds really immature and dramatic. Just let it go. She’s bringing nothing but drama and pain to your life – she’s really not worth having as a friend.

Post # 10
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1657 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@dptobe:  I sincerely hope your mother’s treatment goes well. And good riddance of that “friend” of yours.

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