(Closed) Losing a Friend – Need Advice

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
7651 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Why did you even say yes knowing that you don’t care to be her friend anymore? I don’t think you did her a favor by being in it. If you haven’t gotten the dress or anything yet, I would drop out because you shouldn’t have to pretend to be her bestie for the next year. I know you feel she hasn’t been a good friend, but you saying yes and then pretending to be her friend doesn’t make you any better sorry to say.

Post # 5
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5075 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would limit contact as much as possible.  That’s really your only option if you’re going to be in her wedding.

and this might just be a phase she’s going thru.  People change all the time.  

Post # 6
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7651 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@sal5011:  Understandable. It’s a good thing you are distancing yourself from her as much as you can. However, this wouldn’t have been so difficult had you not said yes to being in her wedding. Why did you? You had already had your mind made up that you wanted to distance yourself.

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