- 9 years ago
- Wedding: August 2009
I have a friend (not a very close friend) who does event planning at a university, and has worked as a wedding planner for several years… she offered to DOC as a wedding gift months ago, and I accepted.
Now we’re 8 weeks out, and I got an email from her saying that she and her husband are double-booked – my wedding, and an event in Michigan that he really ought to go to b/c of his career. She says she’s trying to figure out what to do… but I have a feeling that she’s pretty much made up her mind on not being at my wedding.
I understand, but I’m kind of freaking out… my family has been very hands-off and uninvolved. They’ve been late on everything I’ve asked them to do for the wedding, and messed up a lot of things that I’ve had to fix. If my friend isn’t the DOC, I absolutely have to hire someone, there just needs to be someone to help everything run smoothly, and there’s no one else that I can think of who could handle it.
HELP! If you have advice, that’s cool. Even if you don’t, some hive hugs would be appreciated 🙂 I’m totally panicking, and I’m trying not to guilt trip her into being at my wedding if she doesn’t want to, but holy crap I have 8 weeks to find a DOC!