(Closed) Losing patience…vent

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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Busy bee

You are not alone! I just take each day in stride and smile because I know I have someone in my life that loves all of me for me.

Post # 3
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Newbee

Oh bee, I am in your shoes right now! Sometimes I completely understand the delay is justifiable, in our case its also him saving up and waiting for “the right time” to propose. Other times I just cant take it and sart thinking, if he really wanted to he would find a way to do it already, or i drop very obvious hints etc. etc. I just try to remember what a great and loving man I have and when he can he will propose, my impatient feelings wont shorten that time. Good luck, hopefully you wont have to be waiting too much longer! 🙂

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2017 - Wedgewood Tower Club

I feel your pain! I feel like BF said “a couple more months” forever. Only recently did he throw out “early May” in conversation.

Hopefully you don’t have to wait much longer!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

*hugs* I’m definitely feeling your pain ATM. In early october SO told me it would be in the short term future and I’m still waiting. short term to me would be in a couple of months. he’s also saying he needs to save more money and has a ‘plan’ and has always had a plan for 2016.. Sigh we’ll get there bee!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: City, State

I’m sorry to hear that! I’m in exactly the same boat, and feeling your pain. *hugs*

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Girl that’s the worst when they say they’re saving for it lol like you shouldn’t have mentioned it at all!

Post # 8
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Busy bee

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mrsluong11:  THIS! It drove me CRAZY when my OH would tell me that! However, I do have to admit even though it makes us batty, the wait is really worth it! 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

I felt the same BUT I had a co worker that bitched and bitched and bitched and her man just fed up threw the ring at her. 7 years later they’re now divorced. I know it sucks I felt pretty impatient too but I didn’t want to ruin the moment either. Remember this is the ONLY thing a guy has a say in really. You don’t know what he has planned. I know mine took so long because he wanted it to be perfect and I’m so happy I held it in and not blew up about “when are you going to propose?!” Hope I helped. Take it day by day and dont think about it !! It’ll happen before you know it

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Not a say but something he completely does on his own **** after that he just pretty much shows up to the wedding lol and it’s a ONCE IN A LIFE TIME MOMENT ! Lol It’ll be worth the wait. I promise. 

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