(Closed) Lost 2 bridesmaids :(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
144 posts
Blushing bee

*hugs* I haven’t been in that situation *knocks on wood* but, at least you know the people standing with you will truly want to be there. If they don’t want to be BM’s and you want them to be involved in the wedding still maybe they can do a reading or something?

Post # 4
1 posts
  • Wedding: November 2010

hi, i dont know how to help you, but being a bride to be who lost 2 bridesmaids 2 weeks before the wedding i know how much this really sucks.

at the end of the day – just remember that the party must go on and you’ll have a beautiful wedding full of people who truly love you so dont fret. just stay positive and smile. 10 years down the road, this wont even be one of the things you remember most about your wedding.


Post # 5
3166 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

agree with redhead. it’s better that they step down now and you can move forward with a more supportive group that really wants to be there. plus, look on the brightside – it’ll be cheaper since you wont have to buy as many bouquets and stuff! 😀

Post # 7
5670 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Coming from someone who lost 5 members of our bridal party shortly before our wedding. I’m sorry and know it sucks.

But when that day came I was so glad of the people who were standing there with us and never once thought about those who dropped out of our wedding. I ended up with a Maid/Matron of Honor, Best Man, 3 BM’s, and 3 GM’s and couldn’t be happier. It was less stress to have less people and the people who were involved were so happy to be a part of our day that it made everything that much more special.

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