(Closed) Lost a friend because she's not in the bridal party

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 77
211 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Yep that’s about the biggest slap in the face you could have done to her.  Yes, you should pick people who you want to be around, but you sound like an awful friend.

Post # 78
1243 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Yikes, this is kind of a hard spot to be in.  On one hand, I completely see your point (which totally does make sense btw) and on the other I can see her being upset.  I think that no matter how hard people want to point fingers (its HER fault for this..or YOUR fault for that..) I don’t think anyone is necessarily right or wrong in this situation.  You did what you felt was best for your wedding (and i’m sure it wasn’t an easy decision) and whether it be bc you were in her wedding…or bc you guys or so close..or what..she’s upset by it.  I think at this point you need to give her time to be upset and hurt…and know that it is understandable that she has her feelings hurt. Hopefully you guys will be able to move on past this and she will come around. 

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