Post # 46
Thank you so much everyone. Each and every one of you. It helps, I know words from people you never met are hard to grasp but knowing so many people are thinking of my little one is a good feeling.
Thank you for the information on baths. I didn’t even think to ask. Baths are my comfort. I take a bubble bath every night and every time I’m stressed it’s bath time. Actually anything calls for a bath in my world. I guessed I couldn’t have one since after giving birth you aren’t allowed too. Just didn’t know if loosing one at this stage meant the same.
Fi is being wonderful. He stayed home, we cried, he just took me out for ice cream. He says he wants to try for another in a few months. That even though this little one wasn’t planned we had already been preparing for one in our hearts since we found out.
I …. I just want to get my tubes tied. I don’t want another one. I don’t want to replace my baby.
I guess everyone copes differently.
Post # 47
So sorry for your loss, sending prayers your way.
Post # 48
smoocherific: so so sorry. Sending you many warm hugs.
Post # 49
smoocherific: i am so heartbroken for you. I can’t tell you how sorry I am 🙁
Post # 50
I am so sorry. My heart is broken for you 🙁 Hugs <3
Post # 51
i’m sorry for your loss. i know exactly how you’re feeling, it has been almost one year since i had my miscarriage. like yours, my pregnancy caught us off guard, but once the shock of it wore off we were so excited. take all the time you need to grieve. i think when you lose a child, you never really stop, but it will get easier and you’ll have good days and bad days. feel free to message me if you have any questions or need to talk.
Post # 52
I’m so sorry for your loss. As others have said, don’t try to cope or put on a brave face, this merits crying and screaming or whatever it takes to get the emotion out. Don’t hold it in, thats what I do then it comes out in form of panic attacks or depression months down the line. Write down your feelings if you can, then tear up the paper or delete the text, you don’t need to show anyone.
Post # 53
I am so so sorry for your loss. xxxx
Post # 54
smoocherific: I am so so sorry for your loss. 🙁 *hugs*
Post # 55
smoocherific: I am so so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Just do whatever you need to do to find comfort. It is good that your hubby is being so helpful and loving right now.
I had an MMC in December. I had the dating ultrasound at 7w2d and everything was fine. I had some cramping but not bleeding. I had some spotting at about 11 weeks. Then at my 12 week appointment there was no heartbeat and they sent me for an ultrasound and the baby stopped growing at 8.5 weeks and I had to have a D&C. It was around Christmas time so it was pretty hard on me. I could not see any pregnant peopel and really didnt want to see any babies. I also felt like you in that I could not imagine trying again right away because I did not want to have to deal with the loss again. It took about a month before I started to feel better (lots of wine and desserts later lol) . We tried right away and I am PG again but its very stressful worrying something is going to go wrong. Hang in there and what helped me a lot was the people on the TTC after miscarriage thread. It is nice to be able to talk to people who have been through something similar and can understand what you are really feeling like. *hugs*
Post # 57
smoocherific: this thread is making me teary eyed. I’m so sorry for the loss of your baby. I’ve read your posts and your Fiance sounds like a very wonderful caring man. You’ve both lost a little baby together. It’s all if the emotions imaginable for you and an emotional trauma for him too. Hold on tight to eachother, listen to each other’s ideas, it sounds like you’d be wonderful parents to a little baby. I hope, in time, you both have the strength to heal from this pain and try again. You will never forget this first baby, but you’ll love again, I promise. Take all the time you need and know that people care and love you no matter what. ♡ Big Hugs !
Post # 58
I’m so so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your husband to get through this difficult time.
Post # 60
May the Lord comfort your heart during this difficult time. HUGS