(Closed) Lots happening at once…not sure how to feel

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
990 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

i can only say this. If your fiance is putting you on the back burner in times like this now how will the future be? I am sorry to hear that it is rough right now and I wish you luck in the job search. I hope that you are able to talk to your FI about this soon though because if I were in your shoes I would question what the future held. Good luck!

Post # 4
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1691 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@LaTortuga:  I agree.  At a time like this, he should be the one you can turn to – and instead he’s at a bar?  I’d be worried about marrying someone who I can’t turn to when life gets shitty, much more than worried about my MOH or overbearing MIL.

Are you sure you want to be in a relationship where shit gets a little tough and he’s no where to be found?  I think you need to take a good hard look at that before continuing with anything.

Post # 5
Member
605 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@redheadbride2013:  honestly…..postpone your wedding…you need to get through a few life events first…it doesnt have to mean ‘never’…just give yourself some breathing space:)

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