(Closed) Lots of sex before proposal?

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
42 posts

I can’t say that there was 3x more sex, but while we’re usually lucky to have it once every 5-7 days, it seemed like we had done it two or three times the weekend/ days before she proposed. More than anything, there was a lot of “going out” for drinks and such like we were celebrating.. . . . I hope that helps?!

Post # 4
9117 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

My husband and I’s sex lives didn’t relate to our relationship status. It’s remained consistant throughout our relationship.

Post # 6
1540 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I’m not at that stage yet, but I could understand him being excited, and taking it out sexually for sure!

Post # 7
314 posts
Helper bee

We are celibate. So I wouldn’t know. lol However, we cuddle a lot. And I notice him paying more attention to my hands. I mean, MAJOR. 🙂

Post # 8
1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

My guy had ridiculous anxiety so our sex life dropped off right before he proposed.  He was so nervous!

Just a heads up, when he finally pops the question, have sex before you tell anyone.  As soon as one person knows, you will end up being on the phone for hours

Post # 10
451 posts
Helper bee

I wish I could help you here!  Just speculating, I bet either an increase or a decrease could happen, depending on how he reacts to pressure.  I could definitely see my guy doing the same thing out of excitement, knowing what is coming.  I hope that is what is going on!  If you’re right, you’ll have to let us know!!


Post # 12
437 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

@DreamingofDiamonds:  i was hoping so, because the weekend of my birthday my SO was all over me! And I mean ALL over me! And then he didn’t propose… LOL. I guess it was just “birthday sex”. I have a feeling that he was excited to give me my present though, so I’m hoping the next time he gets super excited its because he has a ring to give me!

Post # 13
3246 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@BeachBride2014:  Oh wow! I have a feeling that’s pretty good advice!! Yiiiikes. . .


I’m interested to see if this happens to my SO and me now. One more thing to wonder about for a while longer. I probably will find out within the next 12 months, anyway!

Post # 14
3774 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

He made me a fire in the fireplace and gave me a massage, so I was expecting sex but got a proposal instead lol.

Post # 15
367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

We were on holiday when he proposed and we always have sex more when we’re on holiday. I think we just get bogged down by the day to day stuff, jobs, bills, etc!

Post # 16
2849 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think it stayed about the same for us. He did seem really happy right before the proposal and maybe slightly nervous. 

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