(Closed) Loungin around

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Our dress code:

  • Fiance is in boxers.
  • I am in shorts/pj pants and a tshirt with no bra

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Unless it’s chilly, he’s in boxers and I like panties and a tank top. We’re both semi-nudists at heart… 🙂

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

When Fiance lived at home he would come home from work change out if his suit/dress clothes and into jeans and a tshirt or golf shirt of some sort. I’ve ALWAYS changed into pj pants/yoga pants/sweats and then changed back into clothes again if I was going out later. It wasn’t until we moved in together that he adopted my ways. He’ll only change in to “going out” clothes if we are going to do groceries or something.

So normally we are both in a t-shirt and sweats/ comfy clothes.

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

My husband wears a uniform to work, so he usually goes to-from the office in trackpants and a tshirt/sweat shirt.  He’ll usually just stay in that.  I almost always change to yoga pants or PJs and get redressed if we go out. 

I’ve been known to come out of the shower and just lounge around in my towel for an extended period though on the weekends.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Is it more of the potential porn/jerking off/etc that bothers you or is it just about the baby and having discretion?

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

We both exist in similar type clothes at home-I can’t stand to de ressed at home except in loose pj pants and a baby doll nightgown. My husband lounges in a pair of work-out shorts and nothing else.

but you have at least five or six years before you need to worry about nudity and your child (unless you have a girl). We didn’t make a big deal out of it and my boys didn’t even notice or care for a really long time. Guess it comes down to personal comfort level but certainly a baby, toddler or pre-schooler is not going to be that affected.

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Hmm- I think it depends on the type of family you were raised in.  In our house we have an underwear rule- as in you have to be wearing it.  But that is about the extent of the rule.  And we have an 8 year old and antoher daughter on the way.  Now the sack popping out thing is another matter- that junk needs to stay hidden.  But otherwise, I feel like underwear is often as covering as bathing suits and its been 100 every day here and I want to raise my daughters to not be ashamed of their bodies.  Also, when the baby arrives you can kiss a lot of privacy goodbye- children notice you have gone to the bathroom and suddenly there is an urgent need for a tissue.. or whatever.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

When we’re home, we wanna be comfy – i’m usually in yoga pants and a tanktop, and Darling Husband is usually in a ratty old t-shirt and shorts, or his PJ pants.  It’s a rarity to see see us walking around in our gitch, but that probably has more to do with the fact that we have no window coverings yet LOL

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

We will often sleep nude together, but we don’t just hang out in the nude. We don’t have kids or roommates, so no one’s here but us.

I wouldn’t want us hanging out (literally lol) nude if we had kids around.

Typically I wear a pair of Soffee (spelling?) shorts and a little tank or a nightie, and SO wears boxers or basketball shorts. 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

We will often sleep nude together, but we don’t just hang out in the nude. We don’t have kids or roommates, so no one’s here but us.

I wouldn’t want us hanging out (literally lol) nude if we had kids around.

Typically I wear a pair of Soffee (spelling?) shorts and a little tank or a nightie, and SO wears boxers or basketball shorts. 

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