(Closed) LOVE heels, but can’t have them for my wedding…

posted 10 years ago in Shoes
Post # 3
228 posts
Helper bee

If you really like heels, why not wear them?  Is it really such a big deal if you are the same height a tad taller than your FI?  I hardly think anyone will notice if you are 2" shorter or an inch taller    Same goes for if your dress is like, an inch off the ground.  If anything, your dress won’t get as dirty… and I promise no one will notice.

 Wear heels if you want to!

Post # 4
2324 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

JCrew always has pretty flats. Check there.

Post # 5
39 posts

how about kitten heels?  what kind of style are you going for?  super blinged out or just really simple yet sophisticated?

zappos is always a good back-up.  they offer free overnight shipping AND free return shipping…so you can order a bunch of stuff and return it just as easily!

Post # 6
78 posts
Worker bee

I second zappos. I think they have a search engine where you can type in the specific heel height you want.

Post # 9
359 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

hahaha! sorry for laughing but i completely and utterly feel you!

I’m chinese and I’m 5’10. With 3 inch heels, I’m over 6 feet tall!! My Darling Husband is 5’11 which is great, but still, I wore flats to our wedding. I think personally, if I ended with the “screw it! i’m gonna wear heels mindset,” I would have ended up subconsciously hunching my back all day, which would make the pictures look worse, make myself feel more awkward and self conscious. Plus my mom always yells at me for not standing up straight.

I ended up with the powder blue and gold oliva flats from Shannon Britt


love love love her!!!


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