(Closed) Low-key wedding….. what do we do about cake cutting?

posted 6 years ago in Food
Post # 3
12973 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Why not do the cake cutting right after you make your grand entrance, when all eyes will already be on you?  The staff can then take the cake to the side to either cut or just be a decoration until it’s time for desserts.

Post # 4
2105 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@rurahrah:  I’m gonna keep an eye on this thread because I’m in the same position.  We’re having a cocktail party reception also but a 3 tiered cake, and I’m not sure what to do about the cake cutting either.  There won’t be any venue staff helping us, so my Fiance and I will have to cut the cake for everyone, I’m just not sure when or how to go about it, like you mentioned.

Post # 5
9917 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Do you care about cutting the cake together?  If so, just do it — whenever you do, it’ll flow well with the party, I’m pretty sure.  If you don’t care, just have the caterer cut it when it’s about time for dessert.

Post # 6
1920 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I don’t think you have to have a cake cutting. You could have the cake out for display and have the caterer cut it up at some point during the night. Hardly anyone will miss it.

Post # 7
1309 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

We’re also having a very casual wedding. I think we’ll just announce that now it’s time for cake and that the bride and groom are going first. Well, we’ll have my BIL do it. He’s going to be the one announcing speeches etc.

Post # 8
204 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

No cake cutting, no bridesmaids, no best man … all very casual here!

Late wedding ceremony and pretty much straight into evening reception with a hot buffet. Cake is going to be a cup cake tower which I hope the guests will tuck into for dessert.

Post # 9
790 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

We had a Destination Wedding 3 weeks ago in the Bahamas and this Friday is our at home reception. It will  be beach-themed & casual – 50 people, catered BBQ, open bar, a DJ all in a nice venue – a large room with plenty of patio doors to an outdoor deck at a state park marina overlooking the lake. I decided to have a sheet cake and  asked the caterer to cut the cake for people to serve themselves about 1.5- 2 hours into the party. I’ll ask the DJ to let me make an announcement that cake & coffee are available. And that’s it!

Post # 10
2494 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@abbie017:  I did this and it was great. There was about 1 min of attention to get pictures and then we sat down to eat.

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