(Closed) Lust vs. Love

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Um…I don’t see anything wrong with paragraph one of that advice? Is that in reference to the lust part? My husband’s talents and beliefs are part of what made me fall in the love. The second paragraph applies to us, too, however. I don’t really get this? But I am hungover.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Just_Squeeze: HAHAHAHAH …but I am hungover.

I don’t have a hangover and I still don’t get it. I like the definition the author gave of each, but what is wrong with the first part vs the 2nd?

Post # 5
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@Just_Squeeze: Partying during the week without me, where was my invite!!!???

Although, I did get pretty tipsy because hubs had a toothache and decided that we both needed to do some shotsof whiskey to help his pain 😉

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

LMAO! I love you ladies so much!

Whiskey for a toothache. That’s something I would do! And I did invite, you,

@MrsSl82be: you didn’t RSVP! Don’t you know the deadline to RSVP was August 8? Shame on you! It’s a damn yes or no Wink

Back to the OP…Someone help us decipher please!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

I think both paragraphs describe Fiance and I to some extent. I too like how she answered, but I dont get it, if those are both definitions or way that you love where does lust fit in?

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@Just_Squeeze: Liar!! I got no invite 🙁  We should happy hour now 🙂

 

Yeah, hubs and I are definitely in both category. We lust after each other, but also love each other. I think that successful relationships have to have some of both

Post # 9
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1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@MrsSl82be: Well, they do say the best hangover cure is another drink, lol!~!

And I agree. We lust after each other and if that part ever died, I don’t think the relationship could work.

 

Post # 10
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1986 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I don’t think they are defining lust vs. love, I think they are just describing two different type of love.  One might think one is better than the other but that is just opinion.

Post # 11
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3943 posts
Honey bee

I think the author meant that if a relationship is based on the first paragraph, lust, then it won’t survive long term. Although I agree that a relationship needs both in order to be healthy.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Bostongrl25: But the confusion is: The first paragraph dosen’t describe lust. Falling in love with one’s talents, beliefs, education, etc, is lust?

 

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