(Closed) Mad and impatient…….

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2641 posts
Sugar bee

Sorry you had a disappointing weekend.  I’m sure it must be hard to get your hopes up and have to wait.  Do you know how long he’s had the ring?  Maybe for most of the six months he’s been saving the money, and just got it recently. 

While I guess I can’t say for sure it wasn’t that he was “rethinking”, I doubt it.  He bought the ring.  He obviously told his friends he was proposing.  Try not to stress.  It sounds like it’s going to happen soon.  And try not to talk about it.  It might ruiin his surprise.

Good luck.

Post # 4
1385 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

That’s a frustrating situation. I would try to drop the subject for a while until your man gets over his little jitters, he probably just wants everything to be perfect. Here’s hoping it’s soon!!

Post # 5
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

it sounds like he was just worried about the logistics of the ring and keeping it a surprise. he’s probably just going to wait until he thinks up another good proposal. don’t be upset, he has the ring, you know it’s coming soon!

Post # 6
829 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Yea I would drop it for now. Let him do it his way when he is ready. Try not to put preasure or over analyze! Its coming 🙂

Post # 7
1763 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am sorry, I would be frustrated too. I would try to take time to calm down and focus on yourself for a while. It sounds like he will propose anytime now.

Post # 8
413 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I would agree with everybody else it sounds like it is definitely coming soon and dont stress at least you know that he is discussing it with his friends which is always a good sign.

Post # 9
46 posts
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m sorry that you’re expectations were let down, but also take a step back and remember “popping the question” is CRAZY STRESSFUL for guys. Your SO probably did freak about silly things like airport security, and it has nothin to do with you at all. He’s also probably pissed at his friend because now you’re upset with the let-down of the supposed vacation engagement, and your SO’s thinking, “well, what NOW?” Of course he doesn’t want you to be upset, but he’s also probably trying to figure out a way to fix it.

Just vent to us, don’t mention anything more to your SO, and just be your regular sweet self. With the tempers down, he’ll probably propose sooner rather then later. Good luck!

Post # 10
603 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

aww its totally coming!! Maybe he just felt like the time wasnt just right..you gotta remember this is the guys day to shine (like the wedding day is the girls day..) and maybe it just wasnt what he wanted your proposal to be..who knows though..guys are weird like that lol. At least he has your ring and it will be soon! You are farther along than me dear 🙂

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