- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
Check out my previous post here….
SO! He left Sam a voicemail yesterday, and said that he is actually pretty sure he did mention something to him at some point in the last few months, to which I replied with a MMMMhmmmm.
We were supposed to work on getting the music play lists put together last night, I have already compiled about 8-9 hours of music of which we only need 6. I was working on escort cards with my Maid/Matron of Honor last night, and he was supposed to get his Bridesmaid or Best Man over to do music…well of course. He didn’t get the fact that just because they set it up earlier in the week didn’t necessarily mean his Bridesmaid or Best Man was just going to show up….Fiance didn’t send a text asking if he was coming, no reminder during the day, nothing. So the music did not get worked on much last night.
Granted the guy (BM) lives across the street, and my Maid/Matron of Honor is his wife, so I can kinda sorta see how Fiance would have assumed that he was coming…however I blew up and told him that this is oUR wedding and that his Bridesmaid or Best Man is not going to BEG him to help do US a FAVOR! His Bridesmaid or Best Man has been trying to get him to work on this for weeks, and for whatever reason Fiance has not been able to (Most legitimate reasons) so now I get that he is waiting for Fiance to make the mov since Bridesmaid or Best Man has tried so many times…
So now, I have not talked to the DJ because I have to give Fiance the chance to fix that, he has apologized many times, although now he is being a jerk about lats night….but he swears that he has communicated to Sam what we would like him to do and is just waiting to confirm details with him…I can handle that.
The music is not loaded into the laptop we are having Sam (DJ acquiantance) use and we are not sure how long that will take since it is an older laptop…..
Fiance and I are barely speaking because he knows he was worng and avoids me because he feels stupid….he did apologize in bed last night but most likely I will get a real heartfelt one today some time….
8 days to go and I am a wreck and i just want to snuggle my Fiance and have hime tell me everything will come together…..GRRRRRRR!