(Closed) Mad dramz on the guest list tip

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
Member
1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

Kittyachi – you crack me up! I’m with you. My other suggestion is talk to your Dad. I dunno about you but in my world – cooler heads prevail when Pops is involved instead of my mom.

Post # 18
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368 posts
Helper bee

I can’t imagine how frustraing that would be – to play for X number and all of a sudden, it’s SIGNIFICANTLY more than you planned! Like the others suggested, talk to your dad, hope for some “no”s and make the best of it. This day is about you and FI’s love, not appeasing your mom’s guestlist!! 🙂

Post # 20
Member
1509 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@Kittyachi – I think you are confusing me with Dande.  I was not the one who said “handout from mommy and daddy” comment.  I’m glad everything ended up working out for you though.

Post # 21
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655 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Girl.. go ahead and freak out– that’s what this space is for! People need to not judge or be nasty. Glad you have good ol’ dad!

Where in CT btw? I’m in CT right outside of NYC 🙂

Post # 23
Member
1509 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Oh ok good, phew!  I know that sometimes posts can be misread and mine wasn’t an insult to you.  Anyway, I’m glad to hear it all worked out and I’m glad you were able to get the shoes too!

Post # 24
Member
296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I will add that my parents (my dad really) are paying for most of the wedding, and I had to give them carte blanche with the guest list.  There are guests of my parents coming to the wedding that I cannot stand or I have met for 2 minutes once.   It seems weird to share such a personal moment in my life with these people, but I guess that is the price you pay when you don’t pay for everything yourself.  So you are not alone!

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