(Closed) Maid and Matron of Honor

posted 12 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1276 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I’m doing the same thing!  Well, except they both live far from me and are busy, but otherwise…

For the ceremony, though, my BFF will stand next to me, b/c my sister will be 6 days from her due date and not able to stand for it.  Otherwise I’d have had her sit next to me.

You might ask them both to give toasts, though.  It doesn’t take too much extra time, but not asking your friend to might come across as a slight to your friend.  I presume you want her as your Maid/Matron of Honor also b/c of your relationship with her and not just b/c she has time to help you plan.  And giving a toast is a nice honor of your friendship.

Post # 4
228 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2021

My best friend had me as her maid of honor and our married other best friend her matron of honor. I am having those two girls in my wedding so I am having two matrons of honor. They will both do speeches too. I think your decision is great and not uncommon!

Post # 5
558 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I’m doing this! I have two best girlfriends that I couldn’t choose between. One is married, and one is single, so I made my married friend the matron, and the unmarried one the maid! They are my only two attendants, so it worked out rather nicely for me. 🙂

Post # 6
820 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

You can do whatever you want! My sister-less friend couldn’t decide between all 3 of her best friends so they were all "of honor"! One was married so she was Matron of Honor then the other two were both Maids of Honor. Whatever works! 

Post # 7
613 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Im doing it.  My cousin (maid of honor) lives in NY.  My best friend (matron of honor) lives in MI, where the wedding will take place.

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