(Closed) Maid dilemma..

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
4755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

then pick the girls with no drama

Post # 4
7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Just remember, your sides dont’ have to match!! And if you want the 3 in your party, then tell them they need to act like adults and get over themselves on your day, or none of them can be in your party

Post # 5
3049 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I agree. Sides don’t have to match up. And you will be more happy with girls who are not fighting. So either ask the 2 girls, or the 1, and find a few others to make it even. Or just leave everyone out and have it uneven.

Post # 6
3482 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Please, please consider uneven sides. You only have to look through a few of the bridesmaids threads on this site to see the kind of stress and drama that can erupt from including people you didn’t originally intend to. If you stick to just your sisters, none of your friends can make a fuss or claim you’re playing favorites.

Post # 7
1401 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m doing uneven sides! I’m breaking UK wedding tradition by having 4 adult bridesmaids instead of just a maid of honor and some little girls, but my fiance is sticking to tradition and having just a best man (no groomsmen) and 7 ushers. Yes, 7. SO, our wedding pictures will be lopsided. Without the ushers, my side is bigger. With the ushers, his side is bigger. Meh. No biggie! It will probably save you headaches and money to just stick with the girls you’ve already got, not to mention cut down on the drama factor. 

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