(Closed) Maid, MOH or Matron?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
13561 posts
Honey Beekeeper

You can totally have both a maid and a matron of honor, if that’s what you’d like. You can explain to A that you understand that she’s busy with her family and that you have a friend in-town who can help with some of the typical Maid/Matron of Honor things.

I think the question is…do you want A to be an MOH? Is that still important to you, despite your falling out?

Post # 4
9800 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I think you can do what you want.  I am planning on having two maid of honors.  I also agree with PP, do you even want her as a MOH?  She can be just a regular Bridesmaid or Best Man since she won’t have as much time to put into it.  If you do, have her (A) as Matron of Honor and have your other friend (K) as Maid of Honor.  In the ceremony I would put you, then Maid of Honor, then Matron of Honor, then Bridesmaid(s)

Post # 7
13561 posts
Honey Beekeeper

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@MissEMich:  I’ve seen lots of women do a maid and matron of honor. And you can have them stand in whatever order you choose!

Post # 8
1548 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I have a maid and matron of honor, I don’t think there is anything wrong with having them both. 

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