(Closed) Maid of Dishonor – Advice Needed!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

Well, was what she said true? Or could it have been perceved that way by her? If so, than you need to understand the motives behind what she said– even if the delivery was tactless. 

If they were out-right lies, or purely insults with no basis, then you need to reexamine your relationship with her, why are you friends? Is this the kind of person you WANT to be friends with? History isn’t always a good reason to keep a friend. 

As for the “clean up” I think this is more her area than yours– I’d apologize on your own behalf for the things she said, but I wouldn’t try to mend any bridges, that’s her responsibility, should she choose to take it. 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I think you need to sit down and have a heart to heart with her. Tell her exactly how you are feeling and go from there. If you can find it in you heart to forgive her, then do it and move on.

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