Post # 1
So I am having a maid of honor and a matron of honor, I wanted to do something a little different with thier attire then the other bm, maybe a different necklace or a flower….I do not want them in a different dress or color….So I guess that would be my first question, What can I add or change on them to let them stand out a little?
My second question is since I am having both maid/matron of honor which stands next to me? This might not be a issue since my matron of honors daughter is my flower girl and we might have to have her walk last so her daughter can some what “follow mommy” so in that case she would stand last, but im not sure if that will look odd since she will have the “little something different” on….ok so any advice on all of this would be helpful since everyone around me just keeps telling me to “do what I want and dont worry”
Post # 3
I am thinking about having my 2 MOHs wear a different color sash… but I think that having slightly different flowers is a great idea!!
Not sure about your second point, because I haven’t figured this part out yet either… Hopefully someone else who has done this already can help us out! 🙂
Post # 4
Your maid/matron of honor generally walks in last – you start with the Bridesmaid or Best Man standing farthest away then ending with your maid/matron of honor. At least that’s how everyone does it here. To fix the flower girl issue – just have your matron of honor come in last so the flower girl directly follows her – meaning your matron of honor stands next to you and the maid of honor stands next to her. Good luck!
Post # 5
AHHH Im having the same issue! My sister is my Matron of honor and my best friend is my maid of honor. I dont want to hurt either of their feelings, but who should walk first?
Post # 6
I will have the same issue – my flower girl is my matron of honor’s daughter! I think her going last would work?
Post # 7
i have a maid and matron as well, i think i am going to make their bouquets a little bigger and perhaps brighter
Post # 8
I’m having a maid and a matron as well. I don’t think I’m going to have them stand out looks-wise, but I have been wondering about which one should end up next to me. I think I will end up with my matron next to me, because my maid is quite a bit taller than both me and Fiance, and I don’t want us to look like midgets next to her (we’re not–she’s just tall!).
Post # 9
My Honors, along with having different dresses/colors, will have 3 callas and all the other Bridesmaids will have only one.
My Matron of HOnor (my sister) will come in last so that she can stand beside me. My Maid of Honor will be before her.