(Closed) Maid of Honor Bridezilla?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
67 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@katief13:  I don’t think you are wrong at all. I would be completely frustrated too. You are thinking of the bride becasue you want to be a part of not just the day, but all the important events leading up to it too. Maybe since the Maid/Matron of Honor is acting this way, you could talk directly to the bride? Just explain you want to be more involved, but have [serious] obligations. Even if the event can’t be switched, at least she would understand you tried!

Post # 4
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7739 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@katief13:  If the Maid/Matron of Honor changed a time which was agreed, without consulting you, then in my opinion you are off the hook, and not required to help or contribute. Her personal circumstances (her twins) are irrelevant, the fact is she should have checked with people before changing it.

The most serious step would be to not pay the money she expects for the bridal shower, or only pay some of it.

Perhaps a less dramatic way to show your displeasure, is to refuse to contribute to the group gift, and then give the bride your own gift the next time you see her. That form of “protest” at least doesn’t affect the running of the bridal shower.

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