(Closed) Maid of Honor Dilemma

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1226 posts
Bumble bee

Have your best friend as the only MOH and just ask the others for help when you need it.  I’m sure they would love to help without having an extra title.

Post # 4
7872 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@AllyV0621:  How much are you expecting the MOH to do? You shouldn’t really expect her to be doing too much. The main thing is the pre-wedding parties (and if your cousins are 5-8 years older, they’re probably a good choice for the bridal shower but a bad choice for the bachelorette party). Most people agree that the wedding itself is the responsibility of the bride and groom. So I say keep your one MOH.

Post # 5
32 posts
  • Wedding: September 2013

I agree, have your friend as the only MOH but ask your cousins for extra help if you need it.  That way you can avoid awkwardness with choosing one of them.  I’m sure they’ll be more than happy to help out, considering they probably have more experience than your friend does. 

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