(Closed) Maid of Honor Dilemma

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1221 posts
Bumble bee

Have your best friend as the only Maid/Matron of Honor and just ask the others for help when you need it.  I’m sure they would love to help without having an extra title.

Post # 4
7739 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@AllyV0621:  How much are you expecting the Maid/Matron of Honor to do? You shouldn’t really expect her to be doing too much. The main thing is the pre-wedding parties (and if your cousins are 5-8 years older, they’re probably a good choice for the bridal shower but a bad choice for the bachelorette party). Most people agree that the wedding itself is the responsibility of the bride and groom. So I say keep your one Maid/Matron of Honor.

Post # 5
32 posts
  • Wedding: September 2013

I agree, have your friend as the only Maid/Matron of Honor but ask your cousins for extra help if you need it.  That way you can avoid awkwardness with choosing one of them.  I’m sure they’ll be more than happy to help out, considering they probably have more experience than your friend does. 

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