Maid of honor doesn’t like my dress

posted 8 months ago in Dress
Post # 16
4183 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

brookeee16 :  you look amazing in that dress and the color of it really suits your coloring! Nothing on your body is even remotely fat… 😕

The next time your SIL says anything about your dress or your arms, tell her that your ‘fat’ arms will give her a ‘fat’ lip if she keeps going….

Your dress is really elegant and amazingly beautiful. Do you know what makes the dress even more amazing? Your smile in the photo! You are so happy in it and it shows. Your fiancé will love it and you need to tell him to tell his sister to  STFU!

Post # 17
6915 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2019

brookeee16 :  Oh my life. Your Future Sister-In-Law needs to shut up. there is no way your dress makes you look fat. Most brides don’t go for “pure” white and you look stunning. She clearly doesn’t know what she is talking about. Let her have no more involvement with your wedding if she is that rude!

Post # 18
88 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2018 - City hall & Home

You look fabulous i love it!! I think she’s just jealous and wanted to be right -_-

Post # 19
37 posts
  • Wedding: June 2018

I actually snorted when I saw your photo after reading your decription. The dress looks incredible on you and in NO WAY does it make you look like you have fat arms!

The statement is just laughable. Pity the woman who tries to make herself feel better by *attempting* to bring you down. It says volumes about her and absolutely nothing about you. 

Post # 20
838 posts
Busy bee

Your dress is amazing! I love a bit of colour on a wedding dress. White / ivory is so old school! 

Your SIL is being a B. Tell her you’re happy with your choice and leave it at that. 

Your Fiance will have his breath taken away when he sees you in that dress!

Post # 21
1407 posts
Bumble bee

you moh is being an asshole. i suggest you tell her so. 

Post # 22
219 posts
Helper bee

The dress is absolutely gorgeous and you look amazing in it! I’m glad you’re not taking her comments seriously and going with how you feel, she’s being completely disrespectful about the entire situation. 

Post # 23
1543 posts
Bumble bee

You look absolutely astonishing!  Tell her to stuff it!  Your fiance is gonna’ be in tears when you appear, or come down the aisle – don’t you worry about that!

Post # 24
985 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

That is a beautiful dress, and you look beautiful in it. None of her “concerns” are valid, and she’s being incredibly rude. If you haven’t already, I think you need to have a conversation with your Future Sister-In-Law and tell her that her words are hurtful. It is your dress and you love it, and your Fiance will love you in any dress you wear.

Post # 25
453 posts
Helper bee

Wow!! You truly look gorgeous. The dress has plenty of ‘white’ and looks very much like a modern, classic bride’s gown. You are not fat at all and you are so beautiful. Your man would likely be happy with you wearing a potato sack down the isle. <3

I’m not sure why she thinks she has so much power. This is your day with her brother and she was given a position out of grace by you… she doesn’t have to keep it. If she isn’t someone who supports you and will make you feel comfortable on your big day, I’d seriously reconsider her as the woman standing beside you. 


Post # 26
2461 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

That dress is so stunning, romantic, and a little vintage looking! I love it. Your arms don’t look fat (so rude of her to say that!) and you look beautiful. 

Post # 27
3362 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Is this person a friend of yours? Tattling to your fiance that you didn’t take her advice on a dress is just not remotely supportive and would make me second-guess having such a person as an Maid/Matron of Honor. Seriously. At the very least, you need to have a stern talk with her about how hurt/offended you are that she ran to your fiance, that she is NOT to do anything like that going forward, and that if she cannot be supportive, she at least needs to be silent.

Post # 28
597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

NOOOOO omg your dress is gorgeous! Don’t listen to her. She sounds like a piece of work.

Post # 29
3826 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

You look stunning in your dress! Ignore her she’s just salty. Congrats!

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