(Closed) Maid of honor drama….

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 4
Member
553 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Definitely have jealousies in the wedding party. Between my best friend who is jealous she isn’t getting married and my cousin who wanted to be Maid/Matron of Honor. . . I wouldn’t worry about it – hopefully she understands and allows you the opportunity to have the people you love next to you on your big day.

Post # 5
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5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Well, I had Maid/Matron of Honor drama that resulted in her demotion. She’s still in the Wedding Party but I’ve made a new Maid/Matron of Honor. (She is the one I SHOULD have gone with in the first place, I knew it in my gut….). So I’m sure there are still hurt feelings there, even though we’ve talked it out.

I’m pretty sure some things are just unavoidable when dealing with different personalities all tied to one friend (you the bride). I think you have done all you can, especially explaining the cultural differences. If she can’t accept it, then I think she might be a tad unreasonable, and I would expect more of the same behavior. I hope it all works out for you though!

Post # 7
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5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Evie19: Don’t let it get in your head! Just move forward and be excited about your big day!! It’s all about you and Fiance. Let the issue drop. If she keeps bringing it up, then you can tell her how it really is. 😉

Post # 10
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5106 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Evie19: I know it’s hard. Girl, I KNOW. My ex-MOH has bi-polar disorder, and to say that I’m not happy with the way she is choosing to NOT deal with it would be an understatement. Along with multiple other things that have happened (she missed the first time I EVER tried on a wedding dress and lied to my face about why, etc, etc)…

I pretty much told her how I felt about the things she was doing and NOT doing, and that I felt she couldn’t handle the Maid/Matron of Honor thing and I didn’t want to resent her for it and lose our friendship. sighhh. It still bothers me, but I have to let it go.

I’m glad you have your friend coming from the states though!

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