(Closed) Maid of Honor DRAMA.. what would you do?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
12624 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would use whatever song I wanted, and tell her that she can use whatever song she wants as well.  It’s a song.  No one is going to remember what song you walked down the aisle to, except you. 

Post # 4
2516 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

use the song. she can’t “claim” anything for her non-existant wedding. even if she were engaged, i would still say to use the song. it’s just a song and nobody is going to remember it.

Post # 5
1495 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@beautifullyboheamian:   Uh seriously?   She doesn’t want you to use a song for YOUR processional that she apparantly wants to have in her not-even-on-the-books yet future wedding??  


Use the song that YOU and your FH want to walk down the aisle to. Its YOUR wedding. She is not engaged, her wedding is just a far away gleam in her eye, and she does not get to call the shots at your wedding.  


Post # 6
9057 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’d use it.  By the time she gets married 1) she will likely have found a song she likes better and 2) even if she uses it nobody will remember they’ve heard it before. 

Post # 7
184 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

First off, I LOVE that song!! Second, use it…there’s no telling when she’ll get married and by then, not a single person will remember that you used it! 

Post # 8
2297 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Even if she does want to use that song, people use the same music for their wedding all the time!  Canon in D, Christina Perri’s A Thousand Years, Vivaldi’s Four Seasons….I know those are more common examples, but the point is people are going to use the same music.  It’s your wedding, and if you want to use that song use it!  Just because you use it first doesn’t mean it will be less special if your “friend” wants to use it down the line.  She doesn’t get to dictate your wedding choices.

Post # 9
4685 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

It might be one thing if she were engaged… But she’s single. LOL. She has some nerve!

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