- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
A little background, this is both mine and my fiences second marriage and we have been together for going on 4 years and now we are wanting to have a big wedding. My sister has been there for me in the past but we would fight all the time. And now H2B told her she could move in with our family and get on her feet for her kids. We have been able to maintain for now. When my fience and I have talked about planning I told him I would like to have my niece (her daughter) as my Maid/Matron of Honor. But she atomaticallly thinks she is. I have always been closest to my niece more than anyone else. Not just that but my sister works nights and sleeps during the day (dont mind because thats her job), but when she is off all she does is drinks and I have to take care of all the resposibility of her kids. I dont see her being what I need. We are having a short engagment and everything will have to be a fast pace. I just dont know how to tell my sister that I was wanting her daughter to stand next to me and not her. I would like her to be a bridesmaid instead. please help!!!!