(Closed) MAID OF HONOR. I AM SOOO ANNOYED!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@BlushLove:  Uhhh what’s wrong with “cute”?  As for the tiara, just say no..

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Seriously, it’s hair. And your wedding is 8 months away. She will care more when it gets closer. But you can’t actually expect people, even your Maid/Matron of Honor, to be super excited about your wedding hair inspiration.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

The tiara thing is a NO, but the “cute” thing wouldn’t bother me.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@BlushLove:  Oh! Well if she asked to see it I would expect she would have more than a one word answer.

Maybe she was kidding about the tiara? If not, she’s gotta get a clue lol

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I kinda agree with PP’s about Cute. My bridesmaids have referred to potential hairstyles for me as cute. Cute is usually how folks describe hair.

A tiara is completely unacceptable.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@BlushLove:  Take a deep breath.  She probably put very little thought into picking the exact adjective to use to describe your hair it’s just a knee jerk reaction.  

And just tell her that you don’t think the tiara would work.  Done and doner. 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@BlushLove:  So maybe she was kidding about the tiara like others said.  Remember though….NO ONE, not even your Maid/Matron of Honor is gonna be as excited as you are about the wedding.  Esp when it’s 8 months away.  At least she replied in a positive manner(and cute is a positive). 

 

 

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

go get a drink and relax. cute is a compliment.

tiara wtf, but just say no. it’s so easy.

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wow.  You are completely overreacting – it’s hair!  Don’t ask for someone’s opinion if you don’t want to hear what they have to say.

The tiara thing is just weird – not sure why any grown woman would want to wear one regardless of the occasion. Just tell her no and move on – she asked you.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Dear lord, cute is a compliment!!! My inspiration hair could be called cute. I’m 5’1″, I’m cute, it happens!

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