- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
My Maid/Matron of Honor has been acting strange lately. She’s divorced and recently (within the last year) ended a relationship with a man she thought she was going to marry. Having said that, she’s been amazing up until a few weeks ago. She helped me pay for my wedding dress – she’s offered great ideas – and has been, overall, very supportive and excited.
Recently, however, I started the INSANITY workout program as a challenge to myself. I’m already in good shape, but saw it as an opportunity to take it to the next level. And with the wedding in six months, I figured – why not? She keeps telling me she’s “worried about me” and rolls her eyes when I mention how the program is going – saying it’s too much and that I should be pushing myself like that.
She also has been throwing “digs” my way every once in awhile and attacking my character. She’ll question ideas or thoughts that I have, and has been significantly less supportive about things – wedding and non-wedding related.
I know she’s a bit jealous about me getting married (she’s playfully admitted this), which I would be too if I was in the same position. However, is it getting worse? Should I be worried? I’m starting to feel bad about myself and don’t like that my best friend is treating me this way…