Post # 1
I need your advice bees! So I have two best friends…both I’ve known since middle school. One is my best girlfriend and one my best guy friend. He and I never dated and had a brother/sister relationship since then.
I would like to ask them to be my maid/man of honor. Has anyone done this? Were there any issues? I see it as somewhat of a benefit that they can share the burden but both be recognized as my closest friends.
Post # 3
If you really can’t decide between the two, it sounds like the best way to go is to have him as your man of honor and her as your maid of honor. Both of them will appreciate being recognized as such and you’ll be able to have both of them supporting you. I’ve been to a few weddings where there were two individuals in the maid of honor, especially with maid of honor and matron of honor. I see your situation as no different. I was in a similar situation between my male and female best friends. I was able to pick one, but at one point did consider using both in the honor spot. Good luck!
Post # 4
I think it sounds like a good idea! Would he come to the bachelorette party? hehe.
Post # 5
I think that you should choose both. I think that they would love to be recognized with that “honor” and stand with you on your most important day.