Post # 1
Hi ladies! I have a question for you. My maid of honor seems to be in another place right now. She’s pregnant and can only focus on that at the moment. She dropped the ball on the bachelorette party and two of my other fabulous bridesmaids have stepped up in an amazing way. I’m also trying to use the MOH’s two daughters as flower girls but I can’t get sizes from her or any participating in picking/paying for dresses. Do you think it would be ok to just drop the Maid/Matron of Honor title from my bridal party and have just bridesmaids? Also, I’d like for another bridesmaid to do the toasts b/c the Maid/Matron of Honor has just been totally out of it. I wonder if she even wants to be in the wedding…
Post # 3
I think you should personally talk to her and let her know your concerns and let her voice if she is able to take up her responsibilities. I think jus axing her may some drama.
I say talk to her first one on one. Hope all works out well
Post # 4
You know, it’s always difficult when friends have so much on their plate that they can’t be there for each other in the ways they would like to be….getting married is a big deal, so is having a baby. I was always under the impression that a bachelorette party was kind of a gift from the whole bridal party, but not a requirement of the Maid/Matron of Honor per se…the point is your bridesmaids are making it happen and that’s a good thing…plus if I were pregnant, I don’t think I would really be up to the task of planning a wild night out…kind of strange, right? The problem with making any bridal party changes now is that it could stir up a HUGE amount of drama…I mean, you two are like the titans of important/emotional stuff here…bride to be on one side, pregnant lady on the other…I wouldn’t underestimate her hormones, at all.