(Closed) Maid Of Honour troubles – HELP!!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: How do i deal with this?
    Confront her and explain its your wedding. : (4 votes)
    80 %
    Keep quiet and say nothing. : (1 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    7975 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    tiara = over the top

    sparkly shoes = reasonable

    and yes, you really can’t say anything about wearing a corset under the dress, unless it’s to suggest spanx to create a cleaner line instead.

    I think you shoud compromise with her on the shoes. Afterall, they’re just shoes. She is NOT going to outshine you no matter what she wears; you’re the bride and she’s a bridesmaid! So go ahead and let her have fun and feel good about herself!

    Post # 4
    Member
    8353 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I think you should have a sit down talk with her. If she doesn’t like what you have to say, then ask her to step down and have your otther bridesmaid be the Maid/Matron of Honor.

    Post # 5
    Member
    5388 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I can’t believe that she wanted to wear a tiara! You are doing great by standing your ground. If she tries something else I would probably say, ” woah you are being a bridesmaidzilla” and laugh it off like you are joking. Hopefully she will get the hint. That is the passive agressive approach.

    A direct approach would be to just pull her aside and tell her how you feel.

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