(Closed) Maid of Honour Troubles

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1245 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I hate to say this but you may want to ask her to step down. Tell her you don’t want to b a burden on her finances, it’s a good excuse that will help keep her from asking to many questions. I really hope things get better!!

Post # 4
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963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Have you talked about this with her? It seems like something that you should ask her about (since she is one of your best friends) and let her know what you just told us here.  Also, perhaps someone is paying for her to be at the destination wedding?  You don’t know unless you ask.

Post # 6
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335 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m sorry you’re going through this.  She doesn’t sound like a very good friend and certainly not someone who is Maid/Matron of Honor material.  You have a tough decision on your hands.  If you ask her to step down, 1) it’s only right for you to give her the money back that she spent on the $135 dress and 2) your friendship could possibly be over.  Maybe she stays in wedding but not as MOH since she already bought the dress?

It sounds like you two need to have a talk about how you’re feeling and why you chose her to be in your day.  Let her know her lack of emotional involvement is hurting you.  Good luck! 

Post # 7
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2247 posts
Buzzing bee

Just ask her to step down.  She is being ridiculous!

Post # 8
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7412 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Ask her to step down and personally I would totally call her out on her double standard. Some friend.

Post # 9
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3157 posts
Sugar bee

I think that she doesn’t have the right to be in your wedding party if this is how she is responding to her responsibilities. Sorry that you have to deal with this!

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