(Closed) Maintaining Sanity

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I know its frustrating – but the good thing is the ring is in his possession so the proposal is SO close! Just try to enjoy it πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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1131 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yoga! Awesome :). Welcome!!

It sounds to me like your proposal will be coming very soon! πŸ˜‰

Post # 5
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220 posts
Helper bee

Relax and enjoy at this point-he has the ring!  You KNOW it will happen, and that it will happen VERY SOON!   Try to keep yourself busy with things you enjoy in the meantime.  I’m sure he wants it to be a bit of a surprise, so if you need to have a breakdown, have it here.  πŸ™‚ 

Post # 7
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220 posts
Helper bee

@AzFlower:

I really, seriously, doubt he is stringing you along given that he has the ring!  But I am dealing with a guy who “wants it to be a total surprise” while I just want it to be official already, so I can relate to how you feel.   Guys have no idea how hard it is for us!

Post # 8
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1326 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Sounds like you should have your ring soon, very exciting!!!

Post # 9
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1106 posts
Bumble bee

I would feel the same exact way! I would not give my SO an ultimatum since we’ve only been together for 16 months, but after 6 years, yeah he had the ring and all but the constant ‘soon’, ‘soon’, ‘soon’ can get old fast. However, it could also be that he isn’t actually working late Thursday but rather setting up something!!!!

Post # 10
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47 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Booknerd: Yes, this is exactly what I thought. I think he may be up for something for Thursday when ‘he is working late!’ I can see it coming already. Keep us posted!

Post # 13
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701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

write down a few reasons you love him and try to focus on those, or if it makes you feel better have HIM write down reasons he loves you!

Post # 14
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1133 posts
Bumble bee

try not to freak out πŸ™‚ take a deep breath. try to think of what is REALLY important…that he BOUGHT THE RING AND HE HAS IT!!! hahaha i think he is totally screwing with you. im fairly positive that my SO hasn’t purchased the ring yet nor do I have a timeline’ish. I just know it’s coming but I have nothing to hold onto hahaha. Just breath girl, its coming! and when it does….

 

OMGGGGGG you’re going to be on cloud freakin 9!!! πŸ™‚

Post # 15
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229 posts
Helper bee

πŸ™ How can these guys not realize what they are doing to us??!!? You have every right to be upset. Heck– I’m even upset for you!!

There IS tomorrow, January 6th– something could still happen this week. However, we’ll be here to support you if it doesn’t! 

Post # 16
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1106 posts
Bumble bee

Did something happen today?! I sure hope so!!!!! I dislike that he DIDN’T do something Thursday and that you cried! πŸ™

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