- 11 years ago
- Wedding: August 2008
My best friend since 7th grade was supposed to me by Maid of Honor, along side my sister. It was really important for me to have them both, as thyey provided such different things in my life.
Well, my best friend backed out of being the Maid/Matron of Honor claiming it was going to cost her too much money. i didn’t quite get this, as I would have never expected her to traditionally pick up all the parties and all that, I know what she makes and I’m not mean or selfish like that.
Well soon after that she tried to back out of comeing with me to find a wedding dress because it was her dads brithday and even though they already celebrated it with the family, she thought she should stay home with him (she’s 29 and lives with him, she sees him EVERYDAY, and they didn’t even have anything planned) Then she faked having a bowl issue and was on the toilet all day.
My engagement party came and she bailed out early claiming to be sick so she could hit up another friends party that night, and I wouldn’t have even cared if she told me the truth! This was a mutual friend and I knew he was having his college Grad party that night, she was at mine for a long time it would have been fine.
Well now today was the last straw – we’re supposed to be going to the rascal Flatts concert for my brithday, I have been waiting for this for 2 years. Well suddenly she says she can’t go and asks if I could buy her ticket off her and take someone else because she’s tight on money (remember she lives at home, no rent, only car payment and a credit card) But I understand, she finally wants to start saving I’m going to support that….
Well go figure she lied. Come to find out she made that up so she could go to a costume party at her brothers house that night instead. We had planned this concert for my birthday for 2 months and I was wiating to be able to see them for 2 years, and the party date comes out yesterday and she’s backing out……
So my issue is this, she’s not seeming very intrested or trustworthy, should I just ask her to back out all togehter? I’ve told her that I’m not wanting to talk to her right now and that I may ask her to step down because of her attitude – but I don’t know if I should. All of this started over the time I got engaged, but she could have card less when our other friend did 2 months before us and our wedding are 2 weeks apart.
On top of that she has the tickets to the concert at her house…so Fiance has to stop and grab them on his way home if she even gives them to me, though they are mine, and my brithday gift from my Fiance. She tends to act like a high school student when things like this happen.
I’m so upset right now. What should I do?