(Closed) Major fall out with DH's family over Wedding Bee

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 47
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385 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Ok, I’m a little late posting to this BUT that woman is clearly a psychopath. Normal people don’t spend hours online looking up years-old posts by a distant relative to try and dig up dirt on them. Psyyyyyyycho. She’s got some major issues.

Post # 48
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1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

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@aussiemum1248:  I can’t understand why the mods only allow you to delete 3 posts? Why not give the option to delete as many as you want?!

Post # 49
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119 posts
Blushing bee

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@MistyBee:  can you “edit” the posts and jut delete all

that you wrote Instead?

Post # 50
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5938 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

@MistyBee:  That is one of the strangest things ever. Sorry you’re dealing with that. It’s just not normal that people behave like that. I hope. Thank goodness your husband has good sense and is behind you. Too bad she can’t see THIS post and see how everyone is going to knock what a ding-a-ling she is.

Post # 51
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555 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2020

Whaaaat?! That’s awful 🙁 Hope everyone gets over it and realises it’s silly

Post # 52
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

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@mm86:  They say they only allow 3 because they want people to be held responsible for what they post on weddingbee.  It’s to encourage people to act responsibly.

Post # 53
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611 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@MistyBee:  I honestly would have just laughed at the whole situation and been like thats what weddings do to you, youre not yourself and you go a little crazy I was just venting on an online forum that meant nothing in the scheme of things

and then turn the attention on the culprit which is the person who dug up all of this and turned them against you and be like isnt she a crazy psycho b**** for doing that i mean what normal person would go to that great of lengths?

Post # 54
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@MistyBee:  If your comments were so mild (3 on a scale of 1 to 10 you say), why are they causing such a stir? I’m wondering if it is possible to appease most family members with a simple explanation and apology? (Including an explanation of how you were anonymous and this woman’s behaviour was crazy stalkerish).

Post # 56
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1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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@MistyBee:  I’m pretty sure you can only edit for an hour after you post (and only delete three threads you’ve started, as you already said).

Post # 58
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965 posts
Busy bee

First off I’m sorry your going through this. what your sil did was inexcusable, your sil shouldn’t judge you on your relationship with bils ex wife. If children didn’t play a factor then I would maybe see where your sil is coming from but since their is children involved then she shouldn’t judge your relationship with your bils ex wife.

Post # 59
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336 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@MistyBee:  WTF. That’s ridiculous. Is she proud of her childish behaviour?  Hopefully once the family has had a few weeks to cool down, perhaps your Fiance (or maybe they’ll realize it all on their own) that 1)it’s over 5 yrs old, 2)it wasn’t meant to hurt them but rather alleviate your thoughts ANONYMOUSLY so you wouldn’t take it out on them, 3) While your actions were self soothing and relatively innocent, hers are just purely of malicious intent.  I’m so sorry you have to go through that. 

Post # 60
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3080 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

WoW. This is why I really censor what I post on here. 

Post # 61
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

This post terrifies me. 

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