- 8 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
Ok, so here is the deal…my little sister is my Maid/Matron of Honor and lately I have been feeling like she is the least happy for me out of everyone. My sister and I are pretty close while at the same time being pretty opposite in personality. When I got engaged she was happy for me but since asking her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor she has been really picky about things and acting like I need to plan my wedding to her convenience.
My Fiance and I have not set a for sure date yet because he is in the Army and we are looking at what different options we have. One option is to wait til next summer when I graduate from college and the other option we are looking at is this winter when he is home around Christmas time. If we did it then we were thinking about maybe new years eve or new years day.
I was talking to my sister today and she was asking if we have decided on December or not and I told her that we still don’t know but that we were thinking maybe new years…at this point she got selfish…she said that she does things on new years eve and has plans every year. I told her that I am only getting married one year and there will be plenty more new years eve celebrations to come. She just kept insisting that I need to consider my wedding partie’s plans and that maybe she won’t come to my wedding. She does this kind of stuff to me all the time like I am supposed to plan my wedding around her and her plans. I get more sad than anything because for once I just wish that she could think of me and let me have my day. Planned when I want it and how I want it.
Sometimes I consider asking someone else to be my Maid/Matron of Honor, but then again it is important for me to have her. She is my only sister and we love each other and are close…but being that our relationship is so…no one can make me cry quite like my sister can…:(