(Closed) Makes me sick!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 5
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2576 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Elope.

Post # 6
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123 posts
Blushing bee

Elope or hire a wedding planner to take care of it all for you.  I did the latter.  🙂

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I don’t blame you. I can imagine myself getting the same way as the day approaches. CAN you put planning on hold for a month while you relax? Get friends/family to help out with it more? Set some planning targets each week and only deal with them at allotted times? I feel for you, though, truly. I am already stressed and have pretty much done nothing!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@CodijoC:  Hmm. Have you talked to him about it? From speaking to friends, I get the impression it’s pretty common for both people to feel like this just before the wedding. As a concept, a wedding sounds like a wonderful way to celebrate and make official your commitment to each other, and of course it is, but then when it actually gets down to organizing it, the stress and planning and financial burden that’s involved can sometimes seem so far removed from the point in it all that it kind of freaks people out.

Post # 11
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3305 posts
Sugar bee

Do premarital counseling. Sounds like you both could use a counselor.

Post # 13
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509 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Why do people say elope? It’s stupid. Just because something gets tough doesn’t mean you give up. Especially when money has already been spent! -Unless of course you’ve got money pouring out of every orifice of your body and can do that.-

Honestly, my Dad is my wedding planner. No one cares to help or help me come up with ideas except for my Dad, Mom does here and there. Fiance doesn’t even help.

If you need to take more time to figure out what’s right then do just that. Then get back to planning when you’re ready. The only problem with taking time off is losing progress in wedding planning. Our weddings are approaching fast!

 

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