Post # 1
I see a lot of comments on here about bees being with the man of their dreams. It made me think, are you with the man of your dreams?
It could be that I never really dreamed of the kind of man I would want, I might never have had a man of my dreams
But I wouldn’t say my husband is the man of my dreams, maybe because I never defined what that would mean. I couldn’t tell you what that would mean. I love him and see myself with him for the rest of our lives, and I am so damn happy with our life. That’s all I could ask for.
Do you consider your significant other to be the man of your dreams? What does that mean for you?
Post # 2
Well, I’m not married to Jason Momoa so, no. Definitely setteled for the runner up.
Post # 3
slomotion : i always pictured tall, dark hair, and handsome for my ideal. My husband is only a bit taller than me, and he shaves his head 😂 definitely not who I would have seen myself with, but I would still choose him all over again
Post # 4
Yes, Darling Husband is the man of my dreams. He’s incredibly smart, handsome, charming, goofy, loving, great with kids, amazing in bed, gets my sense of humor, and is good with words – both written and spoken. He’s also athletic and great at fixing things (which I find to be quite a turn-on). He’s everything I’ve ever wanted in a man, and I feel lucky to have him every day.
Post # 5
- Wedding: November 2019 - City, State
Weirdly, FH is exactly the man of my dreams but in a lot of ways I didn’t even really expect. Actually, I think he’s even more than that a lot of the time. We are similar in all the right ways and different in all the right ways. We both learn different lessons from each other and fill in all the gaps we can’t fill ourselves. I’ve learned a lot about letting things go and relaxing from him, and he’s learned a lot about healthy communication from me. We’re far from perfect people and we have our hiccups and stuff, but I guess in a way I never expected it could be as great as it really is. I am consistently amazed by him over and over.
For the record, I am not generally a sappy person, lol. I’m known for being perhaps too brusque about things, so all of the above is a big statement for me.
Post # 6
Sansa85 : I got tall, dark and handsome. But I also got the personality that comes with it sooooo it’s kind of a wash.
Post # 7
Hmm I don’t think my Fiance is the guy I dreamed of being with before I met him. Actually when I first met him, I thought he was cute but kind of wrote him off because I thought he just wasn’t my “type” lol. As in, he wasn’t the type of guy I usually crushed on. But the type of guy I usually had a thing for was never the right guy for me. Probably why I was single for so long before I started dating my Fiance.
I’d say he’s the man of my dreams IF I had been smart about my dreaming lol. He’s absolutely the perfect man for me, no doubt about that, I just didn’t realize what my perfect match would look like before him.
Post # 8
Sometimes he absolutely is and I feel like the luckiest girl in the world and everything I dreamed of. Then sometimes he can be an ass and I wonder why I married him. But in the scheme of things he’s a loyal, honest, hardworking, good looking, intelligent, funny and loving man with a very good heart. He has his moods when he’s tired or hungry but nobody is perfect.
Post # 9
I never dreamed about what kind of person I’d marry. I never fantasized about my wedding either. But I’m with the person who is right for me, and we’ve had a very good life. A few years after we were married he went on a hunting trip with his friends and had a picture of himself taken with the animal he tagged. I told him that if someone had said to me that the man in the photo was who I was going to marry I probably would have cried. He thought that was hilarious and told a bunch of his friends.
Post # 10
I always dreamed of Mr Darcy with the Colin Firth looks, and I got him.
He is very tall which was a must for me as I’m tall and he had brown hair. He’s very shy but when you know him he is the nicest, kindest man there is.
He developed alopecia universalis after the birth of our son so he doesn’t have the brown hair any more but he’s still super handsome
Post # 12
Oh man, definitely not with the person of my dreams…but that’s a good thing. Every relationship I was in before this totally blew up in my face. I am not good at being interested in people who are remotely good for me. My husband is very kind and I’m quite glad to know him. I am confident I am with the right person.
Post # 13
Well he’s not Colin Firth from Pride & Prejudice, so no lol. But yeah he’s still pretty much my ideal both in terms of physical appearance and personality/values etc.
Post # 14
I never had a vision of the “man of my dreams” – not really, and I would say I have fallen in love with two very different men (i.e. my ex and my current FI)
I love(d) them both for very different reasons and attributes – but obviously my ex is my ex because of compatibility.
I don’t think I’m sentimental enough to think of Fiance as the “man of my dreams” – but he is a sexy wee catch who is just the best person ever 🙂 and what more do you need?!
Post # 15
- Wedding: June 2019 - City, State
I’ve never really had a dream guy. I do believe that my fiance is the perfect match for me. We keep each other balanced and are very much in love.