(Closed) Lady T's cheating, it's over.

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 62
Bee
6474 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011 - Sydney, Australia

@Miss Tiara:  Love & hugs for you, girl. xx

Post # 63
Member
2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

That’s awful. Look after yourself xx

Post # 64
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

im so sorry you have to go through this hun, drugs make people so selfish, good on you for having the strength to walk away from this huge mess. it says a lot about you as a person obviously way too good for her, hope you find someone who actually desrves your love.  hugs xx

Post # 65
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2576 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Ugh. So sorry to read all this.

What a strong, amazing woman you are. I don’t know that I could be as caring given the situation.

Post # 66
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292 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I want to play the devil’s advocate for just a minute. (I am in no way condoning what Lady T did, bc no one deserves to be treated like that)

Although you haven’t made any wedding vows yet, you were ready to promise to spend your life with Lady T through sickness and in health. I think most people would agree that Lady T is in sickness right now since she got sucked back into her addiction. Do you think if she got help and went to rehab or something that you could love her again? Or was this just a wake up call for you what being married to an addict is really like, and you don’t really want to sign up for it anymore.

I don’t personally know you, and this situation is all sorts of effed up (and I definitely wouldn’t judge you for leaving her), but I just thought a bit of a different perspective would be good for the conversation.

Good luck with everything Miss T!!!!

Post # 68
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292 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Miss Tiara:  understandable then! It sucks you have to go through this. Hopefully lady t has a speedy recovery so she can gtfo.

Post # 69
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676 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I am so sorry for you but also so proud of you for being strong enough to call it quits and smart enough to know you deserve much better than that. I hope she recovers soon so you can have your house back and get on with your life. Many hugs coming your way.

Post # 70
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Miss Tiara:  I’m glad you’re choosing to show her the door. While addiction, and all the associated activities of lying & hiding, is a sickness… it’s not one you can stand by her through. She’ll  just use and use you until her sickness burns through you first. I’m glad you see this. And I am so sorry.

Post # 71
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Helper bee

I’m sorry, what a shitty time right now for you. I agree with Woodenshoes. I hope she recovers soon so she can get GTFO!

 

Was her mom being nice by telling you about this other phone? Weird how she knew about it.

 

Post # 72
Member
9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Did she admit to cheating?  That is awful. 

Post # 73
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1414 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Thinking of you Miss Tiara…..

Post # 74
Member
1663 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I am so sorry, Miss Tiara!  Hang in there!  It sounds like you have your head in the right place.

Post # 75
Bee
1433 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Historic Lougheed House

Kick her the eff out! 

She can go live with the girl who sent naked pics.  

Seriously, you are too nice letting her stay.

I’m so proud of you for taking a stand and not letting her do this any longer.  People don’t change, they show you who they really are and they don’t change.  

Post # 76
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10849 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Miss Tiara:  I have to agree with Miss Eagle. She has a mom and another girl, let them take care of her. This is no longer your responsibility. You are a good woman with a HUGE heart, but don’t let her have one more iota of it any more hon. Someone else can take care of her, it’s no longer your job. She screwed that up and she doesn’t deserve you. 

More (((((((hugs)))))))))

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